kev ua phem yog dab tsi?
Kev ua phem yog ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm kev coj cwj pwm uas muaj nyob hauv txhua tus neeg mus rau ib qib lossis lwm qhov. Nws yog ib txoj hauv kev ntawm kev tiv thaiv tus kheej. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg laus muaj peev xwm tswj tau nws txoj kev npau taws, ces tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau muaj txuj ci li ntawd. Yog li koj yuav ua li cas nrog tus me brawler? Txhua tus niam txiv yuav tsum tau pom tsawg kawg ib zaug lawv tus menyuam squeals, so, qw … Thaum lub sijhawm ntawd, koj xav tias tsis muaj kev pab. Cov no yog dab tsi "yuav, yuav!" hauv khw! Thiab ua li cas txog cov lus tsis txaus siab ntawm cov kws qhia ntawv txog kev ua txhaum ntawm koj tus menyuam? Peb xav tias nws tsis tsim nyog tham txog nws kom meej. Peb yuav zoo dua los kawm paub yuav ua li cas teb kom raug rau qhov kev tawm tsam ntawm peb tus menyuam mos.
Yuav ua li cas?
Ua ntej tshaj, koj yuav tsum kawm tswj koj tus kheej txoj kev xav. Ntseeg tias kev ua phem rau menyuam yaus yog qhov ntuj tsim. Nws tswj tsis tau lossis tswj tsis tau. Tsis tas li ntawd, koj tsis tuaj yeem teem sijhawm txwv tsis pub tus menyuam qhia nws txoj kev npau taws, piv txwv li, "Tsis txhob qw!", "Tsis txhob ua suab nrov!", "Tsis txhob stomp!". Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob rau txim rau qhov no, vim hais tias tom qab ntawd tus menyuam yuav ntshai qhia nws txoj kev xav. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau nws nkaumlos ntawm koj lawv cov kev paub tiag tiag. Cov kev txwv tsis tu ncua tuaj yeem ua rau "tsis muaj zog" tawm ntawm tus menyuam yaus uas yuav tsis tuaj yeem tawm tsam rov qab rau qhov xwm txheej zoo. Tab sis tus cwj pwm zoo li no ntawm koj cov xeeb ntxwv tsis tuaj yeem tso tseg yam tsis muaj kev saib xyuas ib yam nkaus. Ua ntej yuav txiav txim siab rau txim, koj yuav tsum nkag siab tias "qhov twg ob txhais ceg loj hlob tuaj", uas yog vim li cas koj tus tub los tus ntxhais uas nws hlub tau pib nthuav tawm lawv qhov kev tsis txaus siab rau kev coj cwj pwm xws li kev ua phem. Tus me nyuam muaj ntau qhov laj thawj rau qhov no. Ua ntej, nrhiav qhov teeb meem ntawm koj tus kheej.
Tsis txhob mloog
Niam thiab txiv yog tus tseem ceeb tshaj plaws thiab tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv tus menyuam lub neej. Thiab thaum me nyuam
tsis tu ncua hnov los ntawm nws niam nws txiv: "Kuv tsis muaj sijhawm tam sim no, ua si ntawm koj tus kheej", - nws pib xav tias lawv tsis xav tau nws. Tus me nyuam ua rau nws ntxhov siab vim tias niam thiab txiv, zoo li nws, tau tso tseg tsis hlub nws. Thiab nws ua li nws ua tau: qw, ntaus nws lub nrig, pov cov khoom ua si. Nws xav tau kev saib xyuas. Tus menyuam tsis ntshai kev rau txim ntxiv lawm, raws li lub hauv paus ntsiab lus "yog tias kuv qw, lawv yuav saib xyuas kuv" ua haujlwm. Qhov xwm txheej no feem ntau ua rau muaj qhov ua phem rau tus menyuam.
Yuav ua li cas?
Cov lus teb yog qhov yooj yim ridiculously: xyuam xim rau koj tus me brawler. Qee lub sij hawm koj yuav tsum tau muab koj lub zog ob npaug. Txawm tias tsis khoom, nkees, sim nrog tus menyuam tham, teb tag nrho nws cov lus nug, nco ntsoov caress. Cov kev xav zoo li no yog soothing heev rau cov menyuam yaus nquag heev. Hlub koj tus me nyuam thiab nquag qhia tias koj hlub nws npaum li cas.
Kev ua phem rau menyuam yaus
Yog tias tam sim no koj tus menyuam tsis uavim tsis muaj laj thawj dab tsi pib coj tus cwj pwm phem, ces qhov no yog ib qho cim qhia ntawm kev ua phem ua phem. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau nws, vim hais tias feem ntau tus me nyuam nws tus kheej tsis to taub vim li cas rau tus cwj pwm no.
hais lus nruj rau menyuam yaus
hom kev ua phem no yog qhov txawv ntawm kev tawm tsam, kev hais lus tsis zoo thiab kev tawm tsam. Muaj ntau txoj hauv kev uas koj tuaj yeem sim kov yeej qhov kev tshwm sim no. Thawj thiab feem ntau yog kev thuam ncaj qha. Qhov thib ob tuaj yeem hu ua tsis quav ntsej tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam. Qhov thib peb yog txoj hauv kev los ntsuas qhov zoo ntawm tus menyuam. Piv txwv li: "Kuv xav tias koj mloog kuv lus, tab sis nws hloov tawm tias koj coj tus cwj pwm phem heev." Nov yog qee qhov piv txwv ntawm cov niam txiv yuav tsum coj li cas thaum ntsib nrog lub tswv yim ntawm kev tsim txom menyuam yaus. Hmoov zoo thiab hlub koj cov menyuam!
