Tej zaum txhua tus uas yuav tsum tau muaj tickling lossis tickle lwm tus neeg, xav tias: "Puas tau tuag los ntawm tickling?". Thiab cov lus teb yog qhov ua tau tsis yooj yim. Tseeb tiag, kev luag los ntawm tickling yog deb ntawm qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev zoo siab, kev lom zem lossis kev lom zem, raws li ntau tus ntseeg. Qhov kev luag no tuaj yeem hloov ua kua muag tau yooj yim. Tickling lub luj taws, armpits thiab lwm yam ntawm lub cev yog ib tug txaus ntshai riam phom uas yuav, yog tsis tua, ces ua mob.
Kev lom zem kawg yog hais txog qhov tshwm sim uas ib tus neeg luag nyav heev uas lawv thaum kawg tuag ntawm kev ua tsis taus pa lossis mob plawv. Nco kuv txog ib yam dab tsi, puas yog? Thaum xub thawj siab ib muag, tickling yog lom zem, tab sis koj tuaj yeem tuag los ntawm tickling! Qhov ua rau tuag rau qhov no tsuas yog hais txog lub plawv nres lossis ua tsis taus pa.
Keeb kwm, ntau haiv neeg tau siv lub peev xwm ntawm tickling ua rau mob. Piv txwv li, thaum lub sij hawm SuavHauv Han Dynasty, tickling yog ib txoj hauv kev tsim txom. Nrog nws cov kev pab, cov neeg sawv cev ntawm nobility rau txim rau cov neeg ua txhaum, vim hais tias nws ua rau txaus kev txom nyem yam tsis tau tso tseg ib yam dab tsi. Thiab nyob rau hauv ancient Rome, piv txwv li, cov neeg ua phem raug khi, ob txhais taw tau smeared nrog saline, thiab ces lawv raug tso cai rau yaim los ntawm tshis. Xws li tickling ntawm pob taws feem ntau ua rau tuag. Txawm cov Nazis tau siv txoj kev zoo sib xws, uas tsim txom cov neeg Yudais raug kaw los ntawm tickling lawv nrog plaub.
Txawm li cas los xij, niaj hnub no, zoo li peb xav tias tsis muaj dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm nrog ticked. Peb tickle peb cov phooj ywg thiab cov neeg hlub, thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, peb cov me nyuam. Txawm li cas los xij, tej zaum, txhua tus neeg muaj ob peb qhov kev puas siab puas ntsws thaum yau uas cuam tshuam nrog tickling. Cov kws tshawb fawb tau pom tias qhov kev ntxhov siab thiab kev ceeb toom peb tau txais los ntawm, piv txwv li, kab nkag los ntawm peb txhais ceg yog zoo ib yam rau cov kev xav uas peb tau ntsib thaum tickled.
Koj puas tuaj yeem tuag vim yog ticklish?
Qhov tseeb yog qhov kev tawm tsam ntawm lub cev rau kev tawm tsam sab nraud yog ib qho kev tiv thaiv tsim nyog, xws li, piv txwv li, tau hais los saum no, los tiv thaiv cov kab mob lom. Lub cev ua haujlwm sai sai rau qhov tsis tau pom dua, thiab peb lub hlwb pib ntshai yam tsis xav ntau. Nws kuj tseem tsim nyog sau cia tias qhov xwm txheej ntawm qhov kev ua ntawm tickling tshwm sim ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv qhov no: yog tias koj tsis xav kom ib tug neeg tickle koj, ces cov tshuaj tiv thaiv ntawm lub cev yuav zoo ib yam li qhov ua tau kom ntshai.
txaus ntshai heev luag
Yog li, koj puas tuaj yeem tuag ntawm tickling? Teb: yogheev. Raws li tus kws tshawb fawb Joost Meerloo, uas tau sau ib zaj dab neeg ntawm kev luag ob peb xyoos dhau los, tom kawg yog qhov txaus ntshai heev. Cov kab mob luag nyav, yog ib hom kev mob siab ntsws loj, tau paub txog keeb kwm txij li Nrab Hnub nyoog. Cov ntu no tsis tshua muaj tshwm sim hauv cov ntaub ntawv kho mob niaj hnub no.
Piv txwv li, xyoo 1963, kwv yees li ib txhiab tus neeg hauv Tanganyika tau ntsib kev luag nyav uas kav ntev li ob peb hnub. Feem ntau cov neeg raug luag nyav yoog raws, tab sis qee tus tuag vim yog kev sib xyaw ua ke ntawm kev tshaib plab thiab qaug zog. Qhov tseeb yog tias thaum luag ib tug neeg tsis tuaj yeem noj lossis pw. Txawm hais tias nws sim haus ib yam dab tsi los, cov kua yuav tawm ntawm nws lub qhov ntswg.
Tau kawg, kev luag thaum raug ticked yog txawv me ntsis. Tsis tas li ntawd, peb tuaj yeem nug lossis, nyob rau hauv qhov xwm txheej hnyav, yuam ib tus neeg kom nres "kev ua phem", txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj tsis nres hauv lub sijhawm, koj tuaj yeem yooj yim tsis nco qab lossis, qhov phem tshaj plaws, tuag ntawm lub plawv nres. Tias yog vim li cas koj tuaj yeem tuag los ntawm tickling. Yog lawm, kev luag tsis tas yuav ncua lub neej.
Yog li, koj puas tuaj yeem tuag ntawm tickling? Kev tshuaj xyuas txhua yam uas tau hais thiab sau cov ntaub ntawv no, peb tuaj yeem kos cov lus xaus hauv qab no: tsis muaj kev phom sij rau tib neeg lub cev ncaj qha rau tickling. Tshwj xeeb yog nws tsis ntshai nws. Txawm li cas los xij, kev luag uas kov tuaj yeem ua rau qee tus neeg tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev phom sij rau lub neej. Yog li ntawd, raws li ib tug tshwm sim ntawm lub sij hawm tickling, ib tug neeg yuav poob tsis nco qab. Nws kuj yog ib qho uas ntev luagua rau lub plawv nres lossis ua tsis taus pa.
Tsis txhob hnov qab tias tickling awakens nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg lub natural instincts ntawm kev tiv thaiv tus kheej, txij li thaum tag nrho cov cheeb tsam ntawm peb lub cev uas tickled yog qhov tseem ceeb, vim hais tias cov cheeb tsam ntawm daim tawv nqaij feem ntau muaj cov hlab ntsha loj, uas, rau txhua yam ntawm lwm yam, yog heev ze rau saum npoo ntawm lub cev. Tias yog vim li cas thaum lub sij hawm "kev tawm tsam" nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm tickling, peb lub cev pib mus tiv thaiv nws tus kheej. Hauv qhov no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb, thaum sim "sib ntaus tus yeeb ncuab", tsis txhob ua phem rau nws.
Txawm thaum muaj kev lom zem tickling, nws tseem ceeb heev kom tsis txhob hnov qab txog cov cai ntawm kev nyab xeeb ntawm lub neej: tsis txhob ntaus koj tus kheej thiab lwm tus, tsis txhob poob rau hauv pem teb thiab tsis txhob ua txhaum dab tsi rau koj tus kheej. Ceev faj thiab luag kom ntau li ntau tau yam tsis muaj kev phom sij rau koj txoj kev noj qab haus huv!
